What do you wish that everybody knew?
That mostly in the latin culture it is constantly enforced to stay, establish, continue a relationship with family members who have done you nothing but wrong, don’t respect your boundaries and sometime abuse you because they are blood related. Feel free to walk away and cut any relationship where you don’t feel comfortable in. FYI: This isn’t to take it literally and at the first disagreement you are going to walk away from your family. Sometimes we should analyze and think if the problem has a solution, talk to the person you are having trouble with, acknowledge that you might have part or complete responsibility and try to keep family together.